Love Hack...

 *LOVE HACK*

Lola and her girls-  Zainab, Ada, Tope are going away this weekend to celebrate life and their last days as single women as come next weekend, they will all be walking down the aisle together.

They had met in their first year in the university of Ibadan and remained friends eight years after.

Lola is regarded as the easy going, calm, down to earth one who kept the group grounded.

Zainab and Tope, the social butterflies of the group, they somehow knew everybody and were always invited to the happening parties/events around.

Ada- the goal getter, business oriented one, she had no time for idle chit chat, as she was always about getting the 'paper' anyhow and anytime.

One would wonder how these girls of different tribes, background and temperament ever got along...

Their relationship wasn't always 'peaches and roses', they had days when they butted heads and times they had to come together to heal each other's hurt, speaking of hurt, they had a fair share of that especially in the love department.

Before they got to these point of almost walking down the aisle, they, with the exception of Zainab had to kiss a lot of frogs, which often left their hearts aching.

Lola and Ada seemed to be the two most unlucky in love of the group; one would think any man in his right senses would go all out for those two,they were beautiful, they had the brains, they were industrious, and they beautiful in every sense of the word, but every relationship they tried to enter always ended in premium tears.

Zainab was betrothed to her handsome fiance at birth and was lucky to have fallen in love with him too.

Tope was a natural player when it came to men, she dribbled them better than okocha dribbled the balls, wherever she went, she broke hearts, but the more she did, the harder they fell for her.

Now,the question is what do men want? 

Is there any hack to this relationship game?

Finding the right relationship or finding love should not be so stressful and complicated.

The internet has a lot of guidelines on what to do to find love, where to go to find love, how to look to attract the right one but most times they don't work and this only makes  love and relationships seem like hard work.

Love is a beautiful thing, positive nontoxic relationships do exist, you just have to watch and pray, then find what works for you, there is really no hack to it.

Cynthia Abojei.